The Ultimate Advice For Every 20 Year Old

 

You need to be patient as fuck. 

7AM to 2 in the morning every day. 

But in the big picture, you need to realize nothing good is gonna happen for the next 6 years. 

 

Are you trying to prove to yourself, to your siblings, to your parents, to the world? 

Who you're trying to prove that you're successful to? 

What are you impatient for? 

What's the rush? 

 

i feel like I've known that I'm meant to do something big. 

And I grew up in an entrepreneurial household. 

So it's in my blood, it's in my bones. 

 

What milestone, please give me a Millennial and the milestone they achieved that makes you feel like you're just sitting in fucking Buffalo? 

 

Who's the Millennial and what's the milestone that's making you feel like you're sitting there? 

 

What does that have to do with you? 

 

 

Every second you spend thinking about what somebody else has is taking away from time that you could create something for yourself. 

 

You've gotta deploy patience and you gotta love the process. 

I'm addicted to the process of the battle scars, the setbacks, the lack of..

I gave up my entire 20s, all of them. 

Imagine not doing anything fun or going anywhere for the next 8 years, including Saturday and Sunday. 

That's what I did from 22 to 30. 

Every day I spent 15 hours a day in a liquor store, thought about a liquor store, built a liquor store, sold wine. 

 

How much time did you have for yourself on Saturday and Sunday that was not working every minute? 

 

If you really wanna win and you wanna come to New York in 8 years, and shake my hand, here's what you need to do. 

You need to stop giving a shit about what anybody else has and realize that if you put your head down and just work for the next 10 years, no glamor, no new fucking car, suitcase, jewelry, trip, event, no Coachella, no fucking new fucking sneakers. 

Like fucking work, you will have it. 

Every time you care about one of the things I just mentioned, it will slow down your process of having it. 

 

Being a millionaire at 25 when you're 22, and you're a dick shit and haven't even started is inconceivable unless you fucking hit the lotto. 

 

I want the process of trying to buy the New York Jets more than buying the New York Jets. 

 

I don't give a fuck about the end goal. I care about the process, the enjoyment of doing it. 

 

Like for all my bravado now, I was real quiet in my 20s. 

 

You need to start loving the process, and the work, and the grind. 

You need to start respecting people that are like sleeping with like four roommates, and buying their t-shirts at Walmart. 

 

Just put in work and enjoy that. Enjoy eatign shit, and dirt, and bleeding, and the grind, and don't give a fuck about what anybody else thinks, why you haven't done it, why are you doing that. Have four jobs. Fucking Wendys, Walmart, your side hustle. Work, train, learn. 

 

Show me how much fucking shit you've sold with your digital social media skills. 

 

You're not tricking a winner when you're bullshitting. 

Even if you're posturing and pandering, and PR-ing yourself, no winner thinks you're winning. 

 

WORK.

THAT'S THE ANSWER TO ALL THESE QUESTIONS. 

 

WORK. LEARN THINGS

DO STUFF, TRY TO SELL SHIT, LEARN HOW TO MAKE MONEY. WORK. 

 

SLOW AND STEADY WINS THE RACE. 

YOU'RE ONLY COMPETING WITH YOURSELF. 

NOBODY ELSE DEFINES YOU. 

NOT ME, NOT EVERYBODY WATCHING, NOT YOUR MOM, YOU. 

 

YOU CAN GRIND AND BE PATIENT FOR 10 YEARS, EVERYDAY AND STILL BE NINE YEARS YOUNGER THAN ME 

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